The upcoming moving house that is getting closer and closer is starting to consume me. Our current house is upsetting my wife so much it is also becoming something that obsesses me as well. It has to happen for any good future for us to come about and since my wife is my life it something that is always on my mind and actions. As with anything that consumes your thoughts you try not to let it be all you are about but I must do something about this. I need my plans for moving house to come through and if I let it slip it will be so bad for us.
Take this blog post for instance. Typing it makes me worry about making the moving happen. I'm just talking about it, not actually doing something about it right at this moment. Weird how your mind makes you stress about something that isn't directly being acted on at that time. Part mechanism to make you do it I suppose, resolve the situation so that the stress goes away. It's weird how making something happen to make us happy makes us stressed and worried in the run up to it. The long term benefits though outweigh the problems.
So the old "rip it off quickly" method seems to be the best. Just get it over and done with and you can move on to better things. In this case literally move.
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