Take a guess what I've done for that amount of time. That is almost 6 days and will soon be more than that. The thing about it is that I am loving the time I'm doing this thing. If you know anything about me it is kind of obvious what this thing is but still. That is a lot of time.
When I think about what I spend time doing I also think about something my wife said to me. She mentioned that we never get in to long discussions about things anymore. More than likely that is because we know each other so well and know exactly how the discussion would go. You know so much about how the other person thinks and how they communicate you end up just talking in sentences formed of a few words, effectively completing and filling in information in your head that ends up unsaid.
I think being at that point in a relationship is somewhere everybody should be. To be so secure and understanding of each other that you can communicate without saying things. If you need to go in to detail about things you are doing it wrong, just a few words should be enough to describe anything to your partner. There is such a breadth of shared experience and knowledge that you can pull from that and the other person will know what you are talking about instantly.
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