Beauty and sexiness

After posting that picture last night I have been doing a lot of thinking about how people perceive the physical appearance of others and how it relates to whom we find beautiful or sexy. The picture I posted is something I find sexy but the more I examine her I realise she is not what I find beautiful which has caused my mind to spin on the subject all night.

This post may wander in to tmi territory so just a heads up but writing about these things helps me think clearly so here I go.

When I see a woman, like all men I immediately assess her physical appearance. Any man who says he doesn't is a fucking liar. There is nothing wrong with it and I have a whole other thought process about why that I will talk about another time. There are certain aspects about women that I find incredibly attractive but they can either be caterogised in two ways. There are the ways a woman looks that you just can't help but stare at since they are a beautiful thing. The way a smile on her face lights the whole world to use a corny phrase. The way her eyes sparkle and you lose yourself in them. The way her hands hold and manipulate things can be a thing of beauty as well. Another thing is the gracefulness of their movement (not sure that is ghe right word) that can transfix you. These are all ways that are so hard to put exact parameters on but when you see them something kyats comes alive in you.

The other category is what unlike to call the "oh my god I could fuck that right mow" part. It is the more animal side of attraction that isvtypically perceived as the only way men admire women. It is this side that sparked such a reaction in me last might. There are certain physical attributes that just get such a huge rise out of my cock. Like I said, an incredibly animal reaction. For me I'm not too shy to admit I'm a boob man. I don't care if they are huge, small or anywhere in-between. A nicely shaped pair of tits just begs to be reached for and held. Women with red or brown/black hair also really do things to me. Blonde bimbo types rarely do anything. Then there is the overall figure of a woman and it psissies me off that so many famous people are considered attractive without having any curves. Let me see the shape if the hips and butt, don't just make everything as thin as possible, women should have an almost hourglass type figure.

Obvously these are all physical ways to describe beauty and sexiness. They are the easiest to judge since knowing someones mind and their morals and beliefs is much harder to find out but that can both be beautiful and sexy as well. Someones mind can hold incredible attraction as well.

I want to rant as well about how just because a women is basically naked they are considered sexy. This is not always true, there is something about a nicely dressed woman that is far sexier than her wearing some slutty outfit. You see these women dressed up in ridiculous outfits when you see porn (another shock, men watch porn, often with their partners) and there is nothing sexy about it at all. Then you see a women in a nice dress or even jeans and a shirt in real life and there is a far greater sexual arousal than the supposedly sexy porn bimbo.

I could go on and on about this subject with how women I see get rated in both the Beaty and sexy "ratings" for want of a better word. How they can be one or the other. How finding someone who is both is an amazing thing. Last night I was just feeling an incredible need for sexual attraction and so that picture sung to me. This morning I see the pictures I posted of Amy Adams and someone else that a friend reminded me about (since I had not seen her in a while and I don't want to spoil the upcoming picture post) that I consider to rate highly in both categories. There are just things going on in my life that bring sexy women to mind a lot right now and it is something I will be talking to a professional about this coming week to help me work out my thoughts and feelings.